Unidentified Love Language
I hope that this will help someone with understanding why it is important to be on one accord in your relationship when it comes to the topic of love. Let me give you an example. Let's say you find a kitten. It’s a cute kitten and you adore it. Your natural reaction is to nurture, hold, squeeze and shower it with kisses. In the mind of this wild kitten; you are a human and there is nothing that distinguishes you from the rest of the humans who have hurt it in the past. So the natural reaction of the kitten is to scratch and fight against you. Your initial intent was to love the kitten. What you failed to realize was; your love language was completely different. So the kitten never gave you a chance. This is for both parties: Men and women are two very different creatures. You can’t expect everyone you meet to understand your particular love language. Understanding who you are with will save you from a lot of tears, arguments, and heartaches. People who don't understand the love language of their mate often find themselves fighting against someone who is only trying to love them. Simple things are sometimes heard wrong because we don't take time to understand the love language of our lovers.
