If I say the car is red. The car is red... What color is the car? Funny, I know. Sounds like something you learned in elementary school, Right? Well for some reason that is the hardest problem to solve now that we are older. Women; please be careful. Your hearts are full of love and you really want to be happy. Sometimes blind ambition can really hurt you. You hear exactly what he says and see exactly who he is. Even though it is evident; mentally you paint a more pleasant picture for yourself. If he says he doesn’t want a relationship, He means just that. Don’t continue having sex with him or investing time, if it’s for the sake of changing his mind. Let’s take it a bit further. If he has been caught in several incidents like; lying, cheating, or he’s abusive. Don’t say things like; you can change him, He just has a small problem, or no relationship is going to be perfect. It’s time to hear the words that are coming out of his mouth. It’s time to see things for what they are. Face it: It is what it is.